只有你才能在你自己的心中找到「無條件的接納與愛」，不要把這份責任推給別人。這份完全的愛存在於你和你自己之間，只有你才能夠給予自己的。當你這麼做時，你就能夠成為其他人愛的泉源，因為那時的你，已經能夠全然的誠實並真實的對待自己，你愛自己，也包括自我的陰暗面—那個時常在裡面掙扎並飽受折磨的內在小孩。
當你能夠愛自己，你可以更容易地以真實的觀點看待他人，不會因為他人所說或所做的事情而輕易地被冒犯或受傷。你不會情緒化的去回應，因為他們的行為和反應是他們的事。其他人也不需要為你靈魂的救贖負責---那是你自己的責任，因為你才是你自己的世界及實相的主宰者。
Unconditional acceptance and love is to be found only in your own heart – by and for yourself. Do not burden another with that duty. That absolute love is something between you and your Self. This you can only give to yourself, and when you do , you will become a fountain of love for others, because you then have become completely honest and true with yourself. You love yourself, including the dark part: that child in you who struggles sometimes and is tormented.
When you love yourself, it is easier for you to see the other person in a true perspective. You no longer have to take so personally the sometimes offensive or hurtful things that she or he says or does. Their actions and reactions belong to them, and it becomes easier to not respond too emotionally to it. The other person is no longer responsible for your soul's salvation – you are. You are the master of your world, your reality.
Excerpted from 「Joshua- Love Relationship」
Artwork by Irina Karkabi
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